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Its aseason of rest,relaxing and a time of reunion in afamly memeber says a Norwegian......................

Many people have been busy working and doing all kinds of stuffs and not having opportunity of seeing and meeting with others but this good friend said ex-mass brings all of them back Be4 ex-mass day, people are busy shopping, shoping, shoping and shoping lots of things . During this peroid, every thing is ex-mass. FOOD,CLOTHES,BREAD, SODA,TEA, JUICE BEER SWEETS , CANDLES, CUPS CLOTHES, MOVIES PICTURES, BAGS, SHOWS AND MANY BTHINGS THEY ARE ALL WRITTEN JULE , JUL ,JUL SO NICE AND BORING AT THE SAME TIME.

Decorrection in every coner of the streets that doesnot happend at times in my country they think that is wasting time any way they are still back ward.
its really nice to be in norway during ex-mass time buttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt at time boring coz u will be also missing ur ex-mass back home.

Its now 8months in norway and seen many things happening among the youth. There are very many differences bt norewgian youths and africans or ugandan to say. I looked at this in acertain porospective way such as in economic soceity in general, family, spiritual among others . I ask my seif, why are the youth different in Norway and that of my country???? How does this come abt and how it perists and some reflactions on issues takkled. Norwegian youth grow in luxrious environment and this gives it more defferent . Its complete opposit on the other side in my country there is remendndeous gap btn them.

Ayouth growing in norway doesnot worry of probs across like that of school fees feeding and so on .

Good job opportunities are awaiting them .

Good relationship with their parents is 100% good though
when they get their probs the first ones at times is to the friends bt not comon. Given this atimosphere of equality , norwegian youth are free to say what is in their mind without fear .


It very nice when they are talking to their parents and above all ....... which very nice is that when the child tells the parent that i have aboy friend or agirl friend and they donot say any thing provided that u can stay with that girl or boy of urs .

An interesting one is when ur boy or girl friend comes to the parents house which is not allowed by some parents in africa this is really good if i was in norway, i could count my seif among the luck ones.


In my country, ur not allowed to have aboy friend even just introducing that person home its like committing sin which not good.The only time ur allowed to ahve agirl or boy friend is after ur studies and ur working which is not good .When girls and boys rae doing this, its akind of stealing that is not wanted .

Norwegian youth have freedom of choice they are asked to make achoice on what to do. also at times when u donot want to be with that friend, ur free to tell that person that i donot want to be with u thats achoice.



What do u think abt freedom of choice?

its good to choose what u want to do than forcing u to do what u donot want and this make apreson to learn on his or her mistakes


Have the youth turned to drugs when they have abrob.?

Yes thruogh bad family back grounds like divorce and not getting attation from them.

Do u have enough in life?

Yes i have afamily to depend on and more so the government is suporting me.
Children need parental guidence and care so that they may not turn to drugs.

this is aserious prob in uganda when the parents have refused to take care of u, u become athief, prostoted, players, and so on which is not there in Norway.

thats nice experince for life.
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This is an interesting thing in life and if u want to know more abt Norwgian children and to prove on what the parents say abt them, just go and work with them in either aprimary school or in barenhage u will know more.


Its now 8 months when am doing my practise work in a barenhage. In the beginning, children were afred of me coiz of my black culor and also the languge coz they donot know english their main laguage is norsk so without that, u may not have access to communicate with them but as time went on, after one months when i had also learnt the languge, things were very nice and very good. To communicate with the chn needs u to go back to become as achild, have chn language and above all, create any story then the cmmunication will go on and they will love u very and very much.


Norwegian chn are very strong they try to do things by their own tehn when they fail, they will ask for help from u. You find that even the one of one year is very strong trying to do things alone this is not usual in uganda .Chn need to be helped they cants do things on their own.

Norwegian children have table behavior u find that i young child will request u have give something that he or she needs the exciting one is that even achild of ten months can use aspoon for eating and its very strong thats so encouraging.


At school, they the way of punishment is totally different from the one of africa. In my school, when achild is disturbing, he or she will be told to stop doing that and if he countuines, he will be separated from others and will be told to sit alone for almost and an hour with out doing any thing then the child will know that he has not been doing some thing good.

Back home, children are punished by the beating or not will be given asasupation from school of abt one month then u have to come with ur parent at school and its still the same, u will be sent away from that school which will not be good for some.


I have now good experinces that i will apply to my children too in th near by future. I have also learnt alot and that children need their parents and guidens.